My heart cries out...can someone help me?..my EX is homeless and I feel horrible!?

just try to move on. he made decisions to be lazy, and that's why he's homeless. now, granted, you went out with him, and you sound like you still have love for him, but you can't be with someone who expects everyone else to give him things. he made his choice. you make yours. good luck and hope i helped =]